THE PLAN TO DEVELOP THE LIFE SKILLS
FOR HAVING THE BEST LIFE


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The comprehensive plan is being developed.  Meanwhile you can just go to each section and follow the sequence in the Contents/Links for each subject/skill, spending twenty hours (or what is sufficient for you to feel "up" on it, at the basic level) on each.  You will be learning in competency levels, like in college, where you will reap the key productive ideas and learning in "101" of each subject and then return later to do "201", etc.


IS IT WORTH IT?

We spend 15,000 to 20,000 hours on formal schooling. (See calculations in "appendix".)

Then we spend time applying that in order to earn a living: 2400 hours a year or so.

If we get 10% more efficient at just this, we'll save 240 hours - and it is very easy to do that.

If we cut out useless and low payoff activities, we save a huge amount of time: 1500 - 2000 hours/ year.

All you need to do is move 1/6th to 1/3rd of those hours to what will truly benefit you, both in the short term but every year, multiplying out the value to an immense level, which is 50 -100+ times more beneficial than the cost in time (which is actually low payoff time anyway!).

The answer and conclusion by any intelligent thinking is a definite unequivocal "Yes!"  No doubt, for sure, absolutely, scientifically provable.   Not doing it would provide the greatest loss of aliveness and life of anything.   Doing it will guarantee much more happiness!


HAVE SUFFICIENT TIME?

Do we have time to learn life in the first place?  Can we afford not to? 

Learning these skills at a highly competent level requires about 3,000 extra hours, spread as you wish over the years, assuming you follow a systematic path, as is designed on this site.  See Hours Needed To Learn Life Skills At Different Levels.

That is a small number of hours when compared to the time spent on formal education (15,000+ hours), time saved in being more effective at work (10,000 hours), and time that would have been wasted (tv beyond one hour/day: 58,400 hours). 

Plus the time saved and quality of life saved from not making mistakes and from not having to deal with the same problems over and over.  And quality of life saved is truly priceless!

(Read Do I Have Enough Time To Create A Great Life?  A Great Question.)


CAN I DO IT? WILL I DO IT?

There is zero question of whether anyone with close to normal intelligence can do.  Zero.  (See Am I Capable Of Making My Life Excellent?  Can I Have Confidence In Reaching That High Level?)

The real question we all have is can I do it and not have to suffer, which is of course at the core of "will I do it" ("as I've failed so much before to do what is most healthy for me," or 'it will cause me discomfort as te discipline will be so hard").  If you follow this plan, you will do what is needed and it will be comfortable AND, a big plus, your discomfort in life will be reduced more and more as you progress up the ladder of capability.  


DON'T STOP SHORT IN LIFE EDUCATION

Without really thinking about it, most people assume they either know enough or that they don't have the time to get really good at life.  In both cases, they are wrong - and to much their detriment! 

By stopping short, they make life more haphazard and much harder.  And they fail to get much of the great rewards of life.  They settle for far, far less, when they could have at least 100% more happiness (and lots less suffering!).

See Life Overview - Do This And You'll Have A Great Life!


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"APPENDIX"

WORKSHEET FOR CALCULATING EDUCATION TIME

HOURS IN SCHOOL

Elementary, mid, and high school (180 days, useful 5 hours x 12 years =  10,800 hours
                                                  Homework, one hour x 180 x 9 years =      1,620 hours)
     Basic skills - Reading, writing, arithmetic
     Basic knowledge - History (and perspective), arts (music, etc.)
     Skills for higher education   
     To be added: Learning learning (or we do it on our own)
                         Other life skills
                 Subtotal                                                                                   11,420 hours
College (4 years x 180 days x 8 hours = 5,782 hours)
                Subtotal                                                                                    17,202 hours
Masters (2 years x 180 days x 9 hours = 3,240 hours)
                Total through Masters                                                               20,442 hours

That many hours are the equivalent of:

A work year is generally considered to be 2,000 hours a year.      The above is equivalent to
                                                                                                            10 years of work
                                                                                                      (over 18 years of your life)

AFTER FORMAL SCHOOLING

After age 26, you work plus commute:                                                     2400 hours/year

     Spend 5 hours a day in front of tv x 365 days.  Assume 4 are wasted:  1,460 hours/year
           Cumulative over 40 years, for instance:                                      58,400 hours

To the extent you deem the life skill learning is worthwhile, you could
    devote easily to reading and learning an average of                                  2 hours a day
                                                                                                            700 hours/year

And you'd be very, very effective, plus earn more income as a side effect     Happiness way up

See, for perspective, the effect of spending less than 1/2 of those hours on life learning:  Hours Needed To Learn Life Skills At Different Levels.

Hours Needed To Learn  
   Life Skills At Different
   Levels

This will give you some sense of the sequencing of learning like skills, and what they are:

The Essential Life Skills - Without Which There Is Little Personal Power Or Happiness - Developing these is "secret" to being lastingly happy in life!

The Overview Of How To Achieve Life-Effectiveness And Enduring Deep Happiness