SUSTAINING A RELATIONSHIP - THE ART AND SCIENCE

KEY SUMMARY READINGS, READ THESE FIRST, IN THIS ORDER, then read other capitalized titles:

LOOKING FOR LOVE "OUT THERE" - Look for it in the right place.

WHAT IS A LOVABLE PERSON? - If you want to be loved...

SOLVING THE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM - A way to solve any problem

(F) AVOIDING THE RELATIONSHIP EXITS - The ways we avoid relating

Also, read the other capitalized pieces below:

TESTS, RATINGS, MONITORING, QUESTIONNAIRES - To help manage the quality of the

relationship and to forward it to being more fulfilling and loving.

THE ART AND SCIENCE OF

MANAGING AND SUSTAINING A RELATIONSHIP

IF YOU VALUE

YOUR RELATIONSHIP

AND WANT IT TO BE EXCELLENT, USE THIS SECTION!

Anything that is important is worth taking action on and worth making sure that things work well. The effort spent in "managing" your relationship will provide one of the biggest payoffs of your life!

CREATING THIS AS A

BOOK TO READ

Since a website is something most people don't "read" like a book, it

could be smart to print each piece before reading and then insert it into

the Relationship Reference Notebook

(Site IIB).

(To read footnotes in a document on the internet, under "view" click print layout.)

On each sitemap page, (F) = a worksheet or form to fill out and/or use.

CONTENTS:

Read first KEY SUMMARY READINGS FOR GROUNDING IN THIS AREA

Ratings TESTS, RATINGS, PERIODIC CHECKUPS, MONITORING - It is vital to do

checkups and figure out where the relationship can be enhanced.

QUESTIONNAIRES - Some forms to help you list what to deal with, what is

going on, etc.

Methods METHODS TO COMPLETE AND/OR RESOLVE PROBLEMS/ISSUES

Various topics TOPICS TO CHOOSE FROM AND READ AMONG

OVERALL (other than below, not separately classified)

BEHAVIORS - Useful, negative

DEVELOPING A GREAT RELATIONSHIP, keys to

RESENTMENTS, RESPONSIBILITY, AND BLAME

GENDER-BASED CHARACTERISTICS AND NEEDS - Being ignorant of

these creates many a problem, in unmet expectations and unmet needs

and unworkable behaviors. Knowing them creates harmony and love.

LOVING, BEING LOVED, APPRECIATION, INCLUDING MAKING LOVE

PROBLEMS AND PROBLEM-SOLVING/NEEDS-FILLING - An easy, loving way

to create needs filling abundance, without upset!!!

Agreements AGREEMENTS, COMMITMENTS, RULES (See planning, vision, and goals

also.)

OVERALL

BOUNDARIES

Learning LEARNING AND MASTERING

Planning PLANNING, VISION, GOALS

**Consider using the "Our Relationship" Notebook, as it is an excellent device for reference and for planning and creating the relationship you really want.

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HOW TO READ THIS SITE

AS A "BOOK"

Alt. 1. Print out the pages.

Alt. 2. Read on the computer screen, clicking on the links to other documents, that are already built in or going to the particular location specified.